🤖 Building Influence in Enterprises

Original: Our Favorite Management Tips on Building Influence – HBR Editors. Summarized by Claude AI on September 25, 2026.

  1. Wield influence when you lack authority. Pushing harder creates resistance, so work indirectly. Find whose opinions people actually seek, use low-stakes back channels, time your ask for when powerful people aren’t distracted, broker missing relationships, and build enough psychological safety1 to hear what people won’t say openly. (Pamela Meyer)
  2. Signal power through language. State the decision and next steps instead of listing options. Talk about purpose (trust, growth, impact) to read as a visionary rather than an operator. Own failures, ask discerning questions, and steer meetings by questioning and synthesizing rather than talking most. (Chris Lipp)

  3. Find hidden leverage in negotiations. Partial alternatives still reduce dependence and shift power. Remember the other side depends on you too, delay with purpose, change who’s involved or add visibility, and frame consequences as shared-risk warnings, not threats. (Jonathan Hughes and Saptak Ray)

  4. Delegate across, not down. Only hand peers work that fits their domain, goals, or tools; otherwise it reads as a favor and gets refused. Frame it as a mutual win, set timelines together and confirm by email, meet pushback with curiosity, and follow up by asking what obstacles you can clear. (Melody Wilding)

  5. Use storytelling to get buy-in for change. Compress the vision to a page or less, honor what already works, make the cost of not changing persuasive enough to override familiar habits, use a few numbers as plot points, and repeat the story everywhere. (Frances X. Frei and Anne Morriss)

  6. Lead better conversations. State what the conversation must produce, assign roles (facilitator, decider, expert, challenger, listener), and confirm owners at the end. How you react to a hard point decides whether people keep telling you what the group needs to hear. (Alison Wood Brooks and Andy Atkins)

  7. Give a persuasive presentation. Use Aristotle’s devices: ethos2 (credibility), logos (evidence), pathos (a story that moves feelings), metaphor (make the abstract familiar), and brevity, putting your strongest points first because attention runs out. (Carmine Gallo)

  8. Strengthen your reputation with peers. Courting senior leaders while neglecting daily colleagues quietly damages a career. Repair peer tensions, align with your manager before seeking sponsors above, build ties across functions, and decide what you want to be known for. (Andy Lopata)

  9. Check whether you’re really a good collaborator. Senior people often think they’re helping while others experience them as dominating or micromanaging. Get real-time feedback, check evidence like meeting airtime instead of defending intentions, swap in specific behaviors, and have a colleague flag relapses. (Ivan Matviak and Heidi K. Gardner)

  10. Hold on to authenticity under pressure. Aim for clarity people can absorb, not total transparency: share what you know, what you don’t, and when you’ll know more, on a steady rhythm. Keep values fixed while flexing tactics, and make resilience a shared team practice. (Deepa Purushothaman and Colleen Ammerman)


  1. Psychological safety: a team climate where people believe they can speak up, disagree, or admit mistakes without being punished or embarrassed. ↩

  2. Ethos, logos, pathos: Aristotle’s three modes of persuasion from the Rhetoric: appeal through the speaker’s character, through reasoning and evidence, and through the audience’s emotions. ↩

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